Find Your Soulmate Now

Today I want to ask you a question: What is your idea of a perfect date? Does it involve a long and lovely walk? A delicious meal? A cultural event or a trip to a museum? Well, what are you waiting for? Make a date with Spirit and just go!

Okay, so what exactly is a date with spirit?

A date with spirit is a scheduled time, maybe two hours a week, that you dedicate especially to nurturing and exploring your relationship with Spirit.

And it’s meant to be fun, and it’s meant to be a solo excursion. So no kids, no spouse, no friends—It’s your special quality time with your own sweet self and the Spirit that resides within you.

Now, at this point, your inner critic may be starting to pipe up, and put in its two cents. “That sounds stupid.” “I’m too busy.” But when you remember that whatever goals you are working to accomplish will only be served by helping yourself heal and transform, then consider that maybe you can’t afford NOT to give this a try, because it really works.

Okay, when we think about any relationship in our lives, we know that spending quality time is an important part of keeping that relationship healthy. Whether it’s date night with your partner, recreational activities with your children, or catching up with friends over coffee—these are the moments that create those beautiful connective threads, those heartstrings that strengthen your bonds.

So for today’s episode, I am proposing to you that you make a conscious and consistent effort to connect with your spirit. Be prepared for resistance within you! Watch how your inner critic keeps trying to wiggle out of it at the last minute, downplay the importance of keeping your commitment to Spirit, and expect your inner critic to try and stand yourself up! Don’t let it! Guard this time with all your might, even if it feels silly at first.

Listen, I don’t make promises lightly, and I promise you—if you start making weekly Dates with Spirit, you’re going to learn so much about yourself that you don’t know right now. And you are going to fall in love with yourself in a way that you can’t even imagine. Because Spirit already is MADLY in love with you, and dates with Spirit are opportunities to experience yourself through Spirit’s eyes.

So why does the inner critic create such resistance? What is its problem with going on a little play date? I’ll tell you: It’s scary. Intimacy can be frightening, right? When intimacy begins to develop, the stakes get higher, and we’ve been hurt before.

In the past, when we’ve begun to get closer to someone, we may have learned things about them that we don’t like, things that we aren’t comfortable with, things that aren’t going to work for us. And sometimes it seems easier to just ignore those things so that we won’t be alone. But you are never alone. Spirit is always there, and always will be there, and if on your dates with Spirit, things arise that aren’t comfortable, or need to change, that awareness is actually a blessing. It’s a gentle awareness that is going to help you grow.

If that sounds good to you, and you are ready to become your own best soul mate, watch the full episode for a step-by-step guide for how to make (and keep) your dates with Spirit. 

Thank you so much for joining me today! All my love to you as you embark on this incredible journey. I’m so excited for you to learn everything there is to love about yourself. Namaste

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